Reflection Paper on “Uses of Social Media and How to Use it Responsibly”


*This is a reflection paper I wrote for school about a talk/seminar I attended.*

Social media being one click away, it is important that not only do we know how to use it, but also how to use it responsibly. Memories of videos and pictures like the “Amalayer” girl, Tito Sotto’s alleged plagiarism of a speech, this UP student, whose name I don’t recall (Chris Lau I think?), who had an unfortunate incident during the recent habagat that was caught on video, and a lot more flooded my mind during the interview with Atty. Terry Ridon about cyber bullying, cybercrime and a lot of other words coined to capture the meaning of situations that emerged in the twenty-first century mostly because of the abundance of technology. But with all these words we hear and know, do we really know what they mean? What is the difference between cyber bullying and cybercrime? And why the sudden need for a cybercrime law?

Atty. Terry Ridon clarified that cyber bullying is a form of cybercrime. Cybercrime is a collective term for other acts done on the internet that may cause harm towards other people. On the other hand, cyber bullying is a type of harm (i.e. bullying) done towards other people with the use of the internet and the various forms of social media. What is hard about cybercrime and cyber bullying (for the victims mostly) is the anonymity of the person committing the “crime”. That is why it is easier nowadays for people to get bullied because it can be done without personal confrontation. Unlike before, when bullies and their victims would usually have a personal relationship with each other or at least know each other and have spent time with each other, in cyber bullying, even people you don’t know from all over the world can bully you, and there’s no stopping them. Even if the bullying stops, years after and after much investigation, you can still find all these information in the immortal storage called the World Wide Web. So even your children or your children’s children and anyone after them would still be able to see your embarrassing pictures of that one night that went wrong with just a few clicks.

The last part of the talk was spent mostly by girls gushing over Ramon Bautista, laughing at him and his funny antics caught on cam, but it wasn’t all that. He may have made a few jokes too many and undeniably proclaimed to everyone how good looking he is (with almost all the girls agreeing to him, which I don’t understand), he did impart on us a valuable lesson or two about using social media responsibly.

Being a Youtube star himself, Ramon had his fair share of “cyber praise” and cyber bullying of his own. But unlike the people who made use of their power to spread unlikely videos and photos of unlucky people and embarrassing them all over the world, Ramon Bautista did the opposite: he made videos that may have gone viral, but have taught a lesson or two while giving joy and laughter to the people who watched them.

Like what they say, with great power comes great responsibility. And with all the power granted to us by our fairy godmother Internet, we also have a World Wide Web’s worth of responsibility in our hands hand.


Lots of Love,
J<3

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Someone with a Good Heart


*This is a paper I made for Theology class about someone we know who has a good heart.*

What does one have to do to be called as isang taong may magandang kalooban (someone with a good heart)? I think there is no clear cut way to do so. It’s just so innate in the person that it’s hard to define what it is about them that make them someone said to have a good heart. Or maybe it’s not something learned through instructions but something present in all of us that just need a little jumpstart like a good old engine to begin revving up. Just like my Tita Prosy who I think is a perfect example of someone who has a magandang kalooban.
            
They say that our name says a lot about ourselves. I think this holds true for my tita (aunt). Being the first born in their family and the first female grandchild of her grandparents, her name was decided for her and her parents by her aunts who were old maids. My grandparents wanted to name her something that started with the letter “L” because they both had names that started with the same letter. But because of the case at hand, they had no choice but to give in to the request of their family. So on the day of her baptism, she was named Prospera (prosperous).

Fast forward to her adult life, she did live a prosperous life through her hard work. Being the first child of a low income family who still had five other children to care for, surviving if not only for the help of their generous relatives, she had to strive hard for success. She married at an early age, but she never forgot to lend a hand to her family when the need arises. I was not born until a few more decades after this, but I hear stories of how she, at the age of sixteen or seventeen, worked at 7-Up to help with the needs of her family, or that she was a great help when my grandfather was admitted to the hospital. Even with her own family to care for, she still stood as their ate when my grandfather passed away.

But even without hearing these stories, I have also seen how good her heart is myself. I saw how kind she was even to people she barely knew. I remember how she would buy whatever it is someone sold at the streets saying “Para naman kumita siya kahit konti (so that she could earn even just a bit),” or how she loved serving the church, organizing outreach programs and feeding missions, and being someone to hold on to for my aunts and uncles and to her friends. She may have had flaws because we can’t deny that nobody is perfect, but she made good use of the gift of prosperity that God gave her. This is probably because she herself experienced living a simple life, receiving help from relatives when finances were running low. And on the day she passed on, friends and acquaintances kept pouring in her wake. It was just a testament of how much she had helped a lot of people and how many lives she has touched. That is why I think she has a good heart – a heart that was so filled with love that she had to share it to everyone she meets just so everything that’s pouring out don’t get wasted.


Lots of Love,
J<3

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Laws of Life

*I've been wishing for school to be more stressful, and I guess I got just what I wanted. So after three months of a blog-free life, I finally decided to add a new post. Hope you like it :)*

1)Law Of Telephone: When You Dial A Wrong Number, You Never Get A Busy Tone.

2)Law Of Mechanical Repair: After Your Hands Become Coated With Grease Your Nose Will Begin To Itch.

3)Law Of The Workshop: Any Tool, When Dropped, Will Roll To The Least Accessible Corner.

4)Law Of The Alibi: If You Tell The Boss You Were Late For Work Because You Had A Flat Tire, The Next Morning You Will Have A Flat Tire.

5)Bath Theorem: When The Body Is Immersed In Water, The Telephone Rings.

6) Law Of Encounters: The Probability Of Meeting Someone You Know Increases When You Are With Someone You Don't Want To Be Seen With.

7) Law Of The Result: When You Try To Prove To Someone That A Machine Won't Work, It Will.

8) Law Of Biomechanics: The Severity Of The Itch Is Inversely Proportional To The Reach.

9) Theater Rule: People With The Seats At The Furthest From The Aisle Arrive Last.

10) Law Of Coffee: As Soon As You Sit Down For A Cup Of Hot Coffee, Your Boss Will Ask You To Do Something Which Will Last Until The Coffee Is Cold.

11) Law Of Proposal : After U Accept A Proposal You Will Get A Better One :-D

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Lots of Love,
J<3

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